WRITTEN BY DR. JIM GRASSI
As a kid, I fantasized about being a strong man who saved the world – someone who bravely took on perilous challenges and rescued those in distress. Despite the “woke” pressures of our culture, most men are drawn to helping others at some risk to themselves – leading through difficult times – and they don’t have to look far to meet that mission. My passion to assist others in need and my proclivity to run toward danger have helped me as a chaplain to first responders and as a father.
God has given men the innate desire to take on the headship and responsibilities of their homes, setting an example and direction for the family to follow and embodying the qualities of courage, selflessness, and integrity. Just as a ship’s captain is responsible for setting a correct course, providing clear direction, and leading through storms and rough seas, fathers are to lead their families – serving as providers, rescuers, and protectors (Ephesians 5:23, 25).
God wants each of us to represent Christ in our homes. Psychologists tell us that children who know that their dads pray for them every day and help direct them spiritually enjoy a deep sense of love and security. Such fathers are vital to the health of the family. As watchmen to their families, these strong protectors stand in the gap as defenders of truth, shepherd their family’s spiritual growth, and keep evil doers from entering their homes. They lead through God’s Word, prayer, meditation, the power of the Holy Spirit, and the wisdom of mature Christians among us. They don’t allow the influences of the world to distract their family from the Word of God or from the rule of God in their lives. Is it any wonder such men are under attack by our culture?
When we embrace godly masculinity, we live out our faith in a way that reflects Christ’s character and teachings, particularly in roles of leadership, service, and relationships. We demonstrate strength, courage, and wisdom while also showing humility, tenderness, and sacrificial love. This includes actively serving others, protecting the vulnerable, and leading with integrity and compassion.
“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love” (1 Corinthians 16:13-14).
Throughout the Bible we see examples of godly masculinity: shepherds, soldiers, hunters, farmers, priests, fishermen, poets, kings, tax collectors, and prophets – young and old – standing against evil, defending their faith, speaking the truth boldly, and leading their families and God’s people in righteousness. While there is certainly a masculinity crisis in our country, it has little to do with physique, athletic ability, occupation, or other familiar masculine stereotypes – and nothing to do with dominance or aggression. It is a crisis of leadership, responsibility, and integrity. Let’s be men who exemplify the Kingdom of God to our family, committed to their well-being, embracing our godly masculinity.
Scripture Reading: 1Thessalonians 2:11-12
Personal Application: In what ways are you a watchman to your family and your community? How can you embrace your godly masculinity? One of the most powerful ways we can lead our family is to encourage them. Ask the Lord how you can encourage them daily.
- Taken in part from The Watchman: A Clarion Call for Men to Stand in the Gap by Jim Grassi
Jim Grassi, D. Min.
We cherish any verse in Scripture that reminds us to keep focused and intentional about evangelism and discipleship. “But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry.” 2 Timothy 4:5