We are directed by scripture to continually look for ways to encourage, assist, inspire, and devote ourselves to others. If we genuinely love others the way we wish to be loved, we are doing the will of our Lord. When we model a Christ-like love for others, we testify to the character of God living within us. The old expression of “more is caught than taught” is true. Discipleship is about presenting a consistent testimony through our actions and attitudes. Our conduct is a direct revelation of our character, and our actions will always speak louder than our words. Like St. Francis of Assisi said, “Preach the Gospel at all times. Use words if necessary.” This is also the philosophy that Mother Teresa used in her ministry. It is about being, not just doing.
There have been precious few folks who have impacted my life by demonstrating a genuine and consistent Christ-like love through their attitudes and actions. That takes good character: a sound moral, ethical, and spiritual undergirding that rests on truth, reinforces a life, and resists the temptation to compromise. Tom Landry was one of my role models and was a giant of a man. His good character, in both his public and private life, was unquestionable. His was a life with focus and conviction. A pastor friend of mine once asked Coach Landry why he was not in the bidding wars for a certain All-Pro athlete who had stated he wanted to be a Cowboy. His response was predictable: “The man lacks character. I don’t want players who are so full of themselves that they can’t be a team player!” After he died, it was interesting to see the numerous reports and commentaries associated with his words and work. Despite all his accomplishments in football, the media’s primary focus was upon his outstanding character, his good report. Many underscored his courage and integrity. This legendary Hall of Fame coach left a legacy of love and encouragement to his family, friends, players, and fans and to the many community organizations he fostered.
What does it take to have good character? David described a person of good character: “One who walks with integrity, practices righteousness, and speaks truth in his heart. He does not slander with his tongue, nor do evil to his neighbor, nor bring shame on his friend” (Psalm 15:2-3). According to Paul, it includes fleeing from sin and temptation and pursuing righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance, and gentleness (1 Timothy 6:11). Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount message communicates what is required to have godly character, to be “like Him” (Matthew 5). To be a faithful, committed disciple, who has honor and good virtue, Jesus asked His followers to receive and act upon the “declarations of blessedness.”
Scripture Reading: Matthew 5:1-16
Personal Application: Good character does not come naturally or easily. It takes intentionality, humility, and submission to God’s will and purpose in your life. It is only after a disciple becomes humble, compassionate, meek, merciful, kind, pure in heart, and a peacemaker that he can be “the light of the world” and the “salt of the earth”– a role model. Undergirding all we do is our character. Do you present a consistent testimony through your actions and attitudes? Are you the role model God intends you to be?
Jim Grassi, D. Min.
We cherish any verse in Scripture that reminds us to keep focused and intentional about evangelism and discipleship. “But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry.” 2 Timothy 4:5